Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Not Only Empowering... There is More

Imagine, you are content and happy all the time. You do not require anything or anyone around you to change for you to feel good, because you are already content and happy. No matter what happens in life, you are not affected by any external influences. How great is that??

Imagine again, based on Law of Attraction, because you are content and happy, everything in your life always evolves smoothly and always going your way...... you are attracting the people, circumstances you enjoy..... and you are creating the life style you like.....

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People tend to rely on external source to be happy. We wanted people to treat us a certain way, life to be a certain way and we wanted to own and buy certain things or else we are not happy. But this is all backwards based on the cause and effect of Law of Attraction. When we didn't get what we wanted, we are unhappy. The bottom line is, our vibrational setup is "unhappy unless XYZ". Of course we keep attracting unhappy shit into our lives. And we wonder why God is treating us so shitty?

'All there is' is completely connected and interweaved. The entire universe is a big pile of vibrational mass. 

There is a distinct connection, vibrationally and electrically, among our body, our mind, our thoughts, our feelings and emotions, our energy body, our meridians, our chakras, our aura, our spirit, through the Unified Field (or Divine Matrix as Greg Braden described) , with the Universe.

Everything about us is interweaved and inter-connected with the Universe. Imagine, one thing within us influence another part of us, one thought can heal, and one feeling can cause illness. Further more, our thoughts, feelings, vibrational setups, are intrinsically our attractor patterns that create our lives and everything around us. By observing our own thoughts, feelings, our reactions to our life events, we begin to understand what kind of attractor pattern we have, what emotional behaviors we have,  and perhaps we begin to see that 'the cause' is our vibrational set up, and our emotional energy is what powers the Universe to evolve around us.  Our life is simply 'the effect' of our vibrational setup. 

It might take you a few life times to really understand this principle. But now things are starting to make sense to you, other wise you wouldn't be sitting here reading this article. 

You and the entire Universe are one.  You are in the Driver's seat in your life, you just didn't know that.  We thought there was a GOD (as another entity bigger and greater than us) who was the driver, the boss.  I think the best way to describe the situation is, we are the Boss of our lives, and everyone else is the Boss of their own lives. The entire Universal Collective Consciousness, will take over the drivers seat if you don't drive, using your original vibrational setup, as auto pilot, running your lives.  But if you realize that you are in charge, then life is even more fun than a roller coaster ride..... because you can change your vibrational setup, and change what happens in your life.

It all sounds grand, but!!!!!..... we are going back to the beginning of this article....

we have to change our minds, our mental and emotional programs, challenge our beliefs and logics, change our vibrational setup (attractor patterns), so that the Universe's natural rhythms will finally operate on the new vibrational setup we created and manifest things in our lives the way we intended to create.

If you can change your vibrational setup and create your life, what would you call yourself?  The Creator? God?  There is nothing wrong about calling yourself either of those.  After all, there is no higher being out there that will punish you if you call yourself God.  

Let's put it in more simple terms, we are simply ONE with all there is, and that our mind and feelings are manifesting tools that allow us to CREATE. 

When we are feeling depressed, we create depressing situations in our life. When we are feeling satisfied and content, we create more satisfying and contenting situations in our life.  Get it? 

We are the cause of everything in our lives, whether you consciously know it or not. Whether you want to believe it or not. 

While some are on spiritual journey, seeking enlightenment, some are looking for healing and/or joy and happiness. What is it that we are really looking for?  A secret that brings us eternal happiness and joy?

It had taken me about 30 plus years of misery and14 years of active seeking, using all of my alternative healing knowledge and ability, my intuitive ability, including out of body experience, communicating with multi dimensional beings, non-physical beings, channelling, expansion of my mind to tap into the universal source consciousness and data base(Akashic Records).  I finally got things sorted out.  And I am ready to share all of my understandings with you.

So now you understand that it is so so so so important to get to the state of contentment and happiness, so that you can create more of the same.  How to get there becomes the challenge.

All I can offer is everything I did in my own experience. I can not say that it is the best way,  but it had gotten me here, a place of joy, happiness and contentment. I had manifested a life that I only work a few hours a week, I travel and sight see a lot, I write, I share my knowledge of healing, my thoughts, my observations and my realizations with others, I help others find their peace and joy. My life is purposeful, meaningful, and there is loads of joy and excitement in everything I do. 

Sounds good to you? It is not a simple process, but I guarantee you that it works.  It worked for me, and it will work for you too if you want it bad enough. That means, you are willing to take on challenges and question yourself, your mind, your beliefs and your logic. You are ready to make changes in your life, ready to change your mind, ready to overhaul your entire life....... and have a brand new life.  

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The following is a list of principles that I and my ex-boyfriend had concluded from our life experiences. We did not come up with all of it.  The principles had been out there for a long time.  Many writers, authors and philosophers are also spokesperson for the Universal Collective Consciousness.  

When you realize your ability to feel good, you will ask no one to make changes so that you could feel better.  -- Abraham Hicks

The following principles are inspired by many teachings of the Universe, particularly The Four Agreementsand The Voice of Knowledge by Don Miguel Ruiz and Loving What Is by Byron Katie, Evolve Your Brain-The Science of Changing Your Mind by Joe DispenzaAbraham Hicks, and David Hawkins.
- compiled by Tim Armantrout and Sunny Wang 

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Be Impeccable With Your Word

  • Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. 
  • You can not be responsible for other’s thoughts, feelings, and actions. 
  • You cannot control how others think or feel. 
  • When you words come from the source of Truth and Love, it is integrity, despite how others perceive it. 
  • When your words come from anger, fear, revenge, and resentment, you are not in integrity despite how others perceive it. 

Be Impeccable With Your Thinking

Most people do not realize that when we react to others' words and behaviors, there is a process within us that is an action of interpretation, conclusion and assumption based on our past experience.  This is what I call the unnoticeable by-pass. It is as if your brain by-passed the thinking process and jump right into a preset state.

It takes a lot of practice to get observant and conscious enough to be able to actually observe this process that happens within, because it happens so fast. But if you can identify this process, you can slow it down enough to actually question the conclusions, assumptions, the emotional responses, and the necessity of our reactions. Once you start to question them, you may find many of them are untrue, unnecessary, and unrelated to you, and that you can be free yourself from all of the unpleasant reactions. 

  • Consciously choose thoughts that create LOVE, PEACE and JOY. Avoid using thoughts against yourself. Use the power of your thinking in the direction of truth and love. 
  • Nothing outside of you can ever bring you lasting fulfillment. 
  • Your own thinking (and/or programming) creates how you feel. 
  • You can change how you feel by changing your thinking(programming). 
  • Feelings indicate whether or not your thinking is in alignment with Source energy. 
  • You have the power to undo the beliefs that limit you. 
  • Everything is perfect for its purpose. You just need to be able to identify the purpose.
  • Everyone is right in his or her own perspective. The question is, can you see, understand, and empathize that perspective? 
  • When you know what is true, you do not need anyone to agree with you for it to be more true. 
  • You define what you see and what you hear. 
  • You are the source of how you define and interpret others' words and behavior. 
  • Your reality is the mirror of your thinking and programming. 
  • Freedom lies within the power of your thinking. 
  • Words alone do not judge or hurt. The listeners choose the interpretation of the words. 


Give Yourself the Credit You Deserve 


People are accustomed to think that somebody taught me something. Particularly when facing a philosophical analysis or spiritual principles. We tend to say: "so-ad-so inspired me." or "so-and-so is so inspiring."  I like to ask you to stop and think for a moment. 

This conclusion neglected the consciousness/mind that understood the material. 

Think about this: if someone speaks a language you are completely foreign to, say French or Italian for example. No matter what they say, you won't understand a darn thing at all. That is because you, the listener, does not have the ability to comprehend this information. Nothing spoken is understandable unless you previously had learn a bit of this language somehow somewhere.  The same situation applies to spiritual and philosophical teachings. If you do not already have the ability to comprehend the material, any teaching is only going to be gibberish to you.
  • Your inner wisdom (God-Consciousness) is your teacher. 
  • No one can inspire you with words or actions. Your inspiration rises from the God-Consciousness within. The credit they deserve is in proving the information. 
  • When you appreciate your own uniqueness, you will not need others to appreciate you. 
  • Appreciate the uniqueness of others. 
  • You are a Physical Extension of Source Energy. 
  • You are the creator of Your Universe. 
  • When you know what you give is invaluable, you will not need anyone to know it or to recognize it for it to be true. 

Redefine Perfection


What is 'perfection'? Most people think of an ideal situation, and call that perfection.  Then everything that does not meet that ideal, becomes imperfect. There is nothing wrong about this way of thinking. However, with this attitude, life is never perfect, nothing is ever perfect, no one is ever perfect, and you, yourself is never perfect either. If you haven't noticed, this is a very depressing life attitude. Your brain is accustomed to continuously looking for perfection. In the process of doing so, you will be very well trained to focus and look for "what is not good" and continue to create that self-fulfilling prophesy of a miserable life: Nothing is ever good enough. 

Stop for a moment and reflect in your life.  Have you seen people like this?  Have you been able to observe yourself being this way?  

Have you been very successful  in creating misery in your life? Do you want to the misery to continue? Or would you rather create a different life? Are you ready to make a shift? If you are, read on.

Here, we can begin a different way of looking at events and things in life. I'll tell you why it is important in a few minutes.

Everything, event, person.... has its purpose, meaning, and its originality. And it itself is in harmony and is 'in a state of perfection'. 

Only when we, human, decided that we wanted the thing, event, person, whatever it is... to be the way we wanted it to be, different than what it is, we deem it 'imperfect'.  

When we have a life attitude of wanting things to be the way they are not, to be the way we want them to be, we are constantly unhappy, constantly displeased and disappointed. The reality is, our expectations created our own disappointment. It is like saying that "I want a fish to bark like a dog. And if the fish does not bark like a dog, it is imperfect!" or "I want the dog to do dishes and clean my house for me. And if the dog does not do dishes and clean my house, it is imperfect!" 

I am not telling you to give up completely about life, but simply switching the way we look at things. This is a process to retrain our brain to operate differently. If our brain has been very successful in finding faults about life, we can train the brain to find satisfaction about life.  (Ref: Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Mind by Dr. Joe Dispenza )

If something isn't the way we wanted it to be, then we would look at what purpose it did serve for us.  

Everything has its purpose. If we do not see its purpose, it doesn't mean the purpose did not exist.  It just meant that we are incapable of seeing, understanding and comprehend the purpose. Now put that statement in an situation in our life that we did not care for, and try to find the purpose it had served for us.  

"What good did it serve me that I did not see?" we may ask ourselves. Believe it or not, if you want to see the benefit that it served you, you will always find it.  If you do not want to see the benefit it served you, then you won't find it.  There is a great inner dialogue that is waiting to happen. This is a great opportunity to observe yourself, your habitual thinking and conclusion process(that had created your life experience and any agony there is).  Only with the willingness to admit that we created our own agony will we have the opportunity to revamp ourselves, and create something different. 

Sometimes an unpleasant event in our life triggered us to take different steps in our life. As unpleasant as it was, it was perfect in motivating us to take that different step in life.  When you see an unpleasant event has done us good, and that nothings else could have influenced us the same way, you will be able to understand its perfection, in its own sense. 

  • Everything is perfect in its own way. Even though it may not be the way we think it was or expect it to be.
  • Everything has a perfect purpose.

Take Nothing Personally

  • Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream and their own story. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you will be free from needless suffering. 
  • Nothing that others say or do is ever personal. 
  • Others cannot emotionally hurt you unless you choose to be hurt. 
  • No one is responsible for your thoughts, feelings and actions. 
  • You can not be responsible for others thoughts, feelings and actions. 
  • You are only responsible for your own thoughts, feelings, and actions. 
  • When you ask others to be responsible for your feelings, you are in victim mode. 
  • How others think or feel about you reflects their own beliefs about themselves. 
  • How you think or feel about others reflects your own beliefs about yourselves. 
  • What others think about me is none of my business. 
  • What you think about others is none of their business. 
  • You can not control other’s thinking. 
  • No one can control your thinking. 


Don't Make Assumptions

  • Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings. 
  • Your interpretation of another's behavior is never what it really is. 
  • Reality is always kinder than the story you tell about it. 
  • When you argue with reality (with should, ought to, or have to), you lose 100% of the time. 
  • You never know the answer until you ask. 
  • Each thought is as valid as another. 
  • Don’t assume others view life the way you do. 
  • Don’t assume others think or feel the same way you do. 
  • Do not assume others know what you are thinking or feeling. 
  • Don’t assume others share the same understanding of the words you use. 
  • Be clear about your intentions before questioning another's motives. 
  • Your past experience has nothing to do with what may happen next. 
  • People change. What you remember about others is no longer true. Get to know who they are now. 


Always Do Your Best


  • Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. 
  • Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret. 
  • Your best IS good enough. 


Law of Attraction 


We are vibrational beings.  Every thought, feeling, idea, memory (conscious or unconscious) is part of our vibrational setup.  Our vibrational setup is the cause of our life events.  The universe simply respond to our vibrational setup. 

So when we focus on an experience.  Whether with joy or anger, we are indirectly telling the Universe, we want that experience.  The more emotions and feelings we give to that experience, the more we are going to create (the universe is going to respond with) that same or similar experience.  This is how I describe Law of Attraction.
  • You are a Physical Extension of that which is Non-physical. You are one with source energy /consciousness. 
  • Ask and it is given. Be careful how you ask it!
  • The basis of your life is Freedom; the purpose of your life is Joy. 
  • Law of Attraction is about being 100% responsible with what we attract into our lives. When you claim this responsibility, you also own the power to make changes. 
  • Blaming others for your mishaps means you have given up your power to create something different. 
  • You must align yourself with Source energy to receive. 
  • There is only love, the rest is an illusion. 
  • Anything that you can imagine is yours to be or do or have. 
  • The more intense your feelings (either positive or negative), the faster it is coming to you. 
  • You are choosing your creations as you are choosing your thoughts. 
  • Actions to be taken and money to be exchanged are by-products of your focus on joy. 
  • It is not necessary for even one other person to understand the Laws of the Universe in order for you to have a wonderful, happy, productive life experience for you are the attractor of your experience. Just you! 
  • Your soul experiences are your personal blueprint and attractor patterns. 
  • Emotions activate the attractor patterns and attract new yet similar experiences into our lives. 
  • Your choice of focus creates your personal experience. 
  • You can not fake your attraction point. 
  • When your thoughts and beliefs are not in alignment with Universal Truth, you suffer. 
  • Interactive behaviors are activated by each other’s attractor patterns. You attract others’ behavior towards you. Others attract your behavior towards them. 
  • In the midst of contrast, we launched our desire. 
  • When we continue to dwell on the negativity, we are not in alignment with what we desire. 
  • The art of Allowing is to bring yourself into vibrational alignment of what you want.